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Posted: Thu Mar 22nd, 2007 01:56 am |
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PERTH, Australia, MARCH 21, 2007 (Zenit.org).- A recent report from the American Psychological Association on the harmful effects of the sexualization of girls shows that society needs a new strategy for young women, according to a leading women's advocate in Australia.
Melinda Tankard Reist, t he founding director of Women's Forum Australia, commented on the report to ZENIT, noting that instead of turning girls into sexual objects, society should teach them to "be resilient and to defend their dignity and self-respect."
Tankard Reist is also the author of "Giving Sorrow Words: Women's Stories of Grief After Abortion," and "Defiant Birth: Women Who Resist Medical Eugenics."
Q: A recent report published by the American Psychological Association pointed out the damage caused by the sexualizing of preteen and adolescent girls. How serious is this problem today in your opinion?
Tankard Reist: The problem of the premature sexualizing of girls is one of the most serious issues confronting us as a society at the present time. Girls are being turned into sexual objects earlier and earlier.
The messages they receive through popular culture is that to be attractive, to be accepted, you have to dress and behave in a sexual manner. There are now lingerie clothing lines for preteen girls, and bras for girls under 10, T-shirts with sexual slogans, and even a pole dancing kit complete with a DVD that features "sexy dance tracks" for 6-year-olds.
Popular lines of dolls for girls feature sexy clothing and sexy personas. Gossip magazines aimed at a preteen readership also encourage girls to behave in a sexual manner, with pages devoted to grooming and relationships -- even with older men.
In advertising catalogues, children are dressed up, made-up and posed in the same way that adults are. This suggests that children are interested in, and perhaps open to, approaches for sex.
Young girls are not emotionally equipped to process the sexual messages being targeted at them. It is difficult for them, when abandoned to their autonomy, to resist outside pressure. We are seeing the effects of this premature sexualizing on the bodies of our young women in self-destructive behaviors such as excessive dieting and eating disorders, drug taking and binge drinking, self harm, anxiety, depression, lower academic performance and ill health.
Prescriptions for drugs to treat depression in young girls increase every year. Eating disorders such as anorexia nervosa and bulimia are at epidemic proportions -- and manifesting in children as young as 8. I am pleased the APA has taken the issue seriously -- though I hope it's not too late.
Q: Decades ago one of the aims of feminism was to end the exploitation of women, yet contemporary culture has reduced women more than ever to her sex appeal. Has feminism failed women in this area?
Tankard Reist: I must admit I found it very hard to celebrate International Women's Day this year. I have three daughters and I see how vulnerable they are to messages about sexuality and body image and how hard it is for them to resist this. It is difficult to raise them in a culture so destructive of their self-esteem and which so abbreviates their childhood.
Many gains have been made by the women's movement, that needs to be acknowledged. But at some stage, efforts to end the exploitation of women were overtaken by the movement for sexual liberalism.
Suddenly, women's freedom was reduced to women's freedom to be sexual playthings for male arousal and pleasure. "Liberation" has come to mean a woman's ability to pole dance, expose herself, have multiple partners and avail herself of cosmetic surgery to enhance her "assets."
Sexual liberalism has not advanced women's freedom, but eroded and undermined it. We are living in a sexually brutalized culture. We are seeing more harassment, stalking and rape, more alcohol-fueled sexual abuse and use of date rape drugs. In general, more predatory behaviour.
While radical feminism has questioned the rhetoric of "choice" and exposed the costs to women of the so-called sexual revolution, liberal mainstream "choice" feminism needs to take some responsibility for a confused and destructive notion of freedom that underlines much of the assaults we see today on women's genuine dignity.
Ariel Levy's book "Female Chauvinist Pigs" describes how a culture of sexual display and raunchy behaviors -- i.e. strippers, porn stars, pole dancers, etc. -- is actually a monoculture which does nothing to empower women. It becomes clear that it is not freedom of expression, but a strong cultural expectation for women to appear and behave a particular way.
Q: The unhindered portrayal of sexual images and messages in the media is often defended in the name of freedom of speech. It is also argued that a lack of sexual restraint is "liberating" for women. What is your opinion on these points?
Tankard Reist: The barrage of sexual images in popular culture cannot be justified on "free speech" grounds when it is causing so much damage to vulnerable children who need protection.
Online networks of pedophiles also use "free speech" arguments when trading in images of children being raped. In Australia, a prominent social researcher, Hugh Mackay, said recently that there was too much censorship and that no one was harmed by the mere downloading of child porn.
He completely ignored the fact that every download fuels a demand for more images -- and often more degrading images. This attitude also ignores the harm done to the child whose image is used again and again for sexual gratification around the world.
The APA study and other research, for example by the Australia Institute and by my organization, Women's Forum Australia, provides solid evidence for the harm being caused by plastering society's wallpaper with sexual images.
What we are witnessing is not liberation but oppression. It is not liberating for young women to be told everyday that their only power is in their sexual currency. It is not liberating to convey to women that their freedom lies in participating in their own exploitation. To portray the sexual as the only value of a woman is not liberation, but rather oppression.
Q: What are some of the effects have you seen on adolescents and women regarding the consequences of a culture that increasingly puts no limits on sexual expression and behavior?
Tankard Reist: Young women are facing huge pressure to conform to a sexualized norm.
The "norm" is that young women have an insatiable appetite for sex. This is a cultural assumption that women should be having sex -- at least daily -- and something is wrong if they're not. There is profound pressure from the media for young women to be sexually attractive and active. Without this they are thought of as abnormal and unfulfilled.
Young women are compromised by a sexual free-for-all in which they come to expect only cold soulless encounters -- where they are always expected to give out sexual favors with little in return.
The newly released "Sex lives of Australian Teenagers" demonstrates this. It makes bleak reading, revealing how little real love there is in the sexual -- I was going to say "intimate," but there's little real intimacy either -- exchanges between young people.
Q: What can be done to promote a healthier view of women in the sense of a greater respect for their dignity and their role in society?
Tankard Reist: We need a new strategy for women and girl advocacy.
We need to empower young women especially to be resilient and to defend their dignity and self-respect.
The decision not to submit to hypersexualized messages and to live above the dictates of the culture, needs to be seen for what it is -- a radical and defiant alternative lifestyle.
Young women deserve better than to be treated as merely the sum of their sexual parts. They need to be given encouragement to develop their minds, their intellects, their deeper inner lives, rather than wasting hours in trying to get their bodies to conform to an idealized oversexualized type.
We need more social protection of girls, and even more so because of the excesses of popular culture and the sexual danger this puts them in. As Joan Jacobs Brumberg, author of "The Body Project," points out: "Although girls now mature sexually earlier than ever before, contemporary … society provides fewer social protections for them, a situation that leaves them unsupported in their development and extremely vulnerable to the excesses of popular culture and to pressure from peer groups."
We also need to be investing a lot more in raising decent men. There are many men who share the concerns I have raised here. But there are other men -- and it is primarily men -- who create the demand for the sort of material that strips women of dignity and respect. It is mostly men who commit sexual crimes, who traffic millions of women and girls a year into the twin industries of pornography and prostitution. It is mostly men who buy pornography and prostituted women.
I don't have any easy answers here -- but I'd like to know why we aren't doing more to bring out the best -- not the worst -- in boys and young men? Boys are also demeaned and brutalized by a culture that conditions them to this type of behaviour.
In a Melbourne suburb, a group of 12 boys sexually humiliated an intellectually disabled girl then sold the DVD of the abuse to students at high schools in the area for 5 Australian dollars each. The DVD was also shown online for some time before it was removed. But many people defended their behavior, saying it was just a bunch of boys "having a bit of fun." As long as this attitude prevails, then there is little hope for our girls.
We need a new global movement prepared to stand up against corporations, advertisers, the sex industry, the makers of violent video games and demeaning music clip and Internet sites. We need the same momentum as we've seen drive recent movements against global warming and world poverty propel a new movement for fighting our toxic cultural environment.
The above article is reposted from Zenit.
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Posted: Thu Mar 22nd, 2007 10:28 am |
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I'm glad they mentioned boys in that article. Not only we have to raise our daughters with enough self esteem to not get caught up in the latest, but our boys need to be respectful, and like the article said, treat girls like they have more than "the sum of their sexual parts".
It's a tough battle on both ends.
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Posted: Thu Mar 22nd, 2007 05:11 pm |
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I have a nine-year-old daughter and find it difficult to buy clothes for her that are modest. But where I really see the sexualization of girls is in public middle and high schools. It's routine for middle school girls to "change" in the bathroom before school starts, and what they come out wearing does not violate school dress codes, (they are "covered," after all), but leaves little to the imagination. The worst thing, of course, is that these girls care far more about attracting boys than they care for themselves.
Thanks for posting this article. Yes, a new strategy is clearly needed, but I wonder when the APA will have the courage to recognize that a 2000-year-old strategy is really what our world needs.
Last edited on Thu Mar 22nd, 2007 05:13 pm by susiedear
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Posted: Thu Mar 22nd, 2007 08:51 pm |
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susiedear wrote: I have a nine-year-old daughter and find it difficult to buy clothes for her that are modest. But where I really see the sexualization of girls is in public middle and high schools. It's routine for middle school girls to "change" in the bathroom before school starts, and what they come out wearing does not violate school dress codes, (they are "covered," after all), but leaves little to the imagination. The worst thing, of course, is that these girls care far more about attracting boys than they care for themselves.
Thanks for posting this article. Yes, a new strategy is clearly needed, but I wonder when the APA will have the courage to recognize that a 2000-year-old strategy is really what our world needs.
Both public and private schools in my area have adopted uniforms, so fortunately this is one problem we don't have.
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Posted: Fri Mar 23rd, 2007 01:51 am |
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As a father of daughters aged 13, 6, 6, and 3 who all for some reason want me to buy clothes for them (I grew up on 'hand me downs', and I turned out alright ), but I am constantly faced with the choice of allowing them to choose what is fashionable, or forcing them to put it back on the shelf because it is too immodest!
This past summer everyone needed swim wear, and the only one-piece style in the store of a size to fit the 3y.o. had (for some reason) a gaping hole cut out of the side of it to show off a bit more skin. She's three for heavens sake! Eventually I found something for her in the 2nd hand store.
All I can say is thank God for women like melissa (I recently heard her interviewed on the radio about her book on medical eugenics, she's fantastic) who allow me to believe that it's not just me being an old 'fuddy duddy' (Thats what my dad used to call them, and just between us I always used to think he was one )
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Posted: Fri Mar 23rd, 2007 01:51 am |
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P.S. I also have a son aged 10 and he doesn't like showing off any skin
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Posted: Fri Mar 23rd, 2007 09:05 am |
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For those interested, here is a site that markets modest clothes to teen girls. It's called Christi's Pure Fashion.
http://www.christispurefashion.com/index.php
[code][/code]While I couldn't find it on the website, I thought it was a Catholic program. Here, I found this article that agrees with me New modesty – Catholic program fights back against fashion industry
http://www.catholic.org/international/international_story.php?id=19618
I thought it sounded like a neat program. 
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